It’s the start of the school year once again. For most parents, that means waking up earlier, battling through traffic to pick up the children from school and helping your kids with their homework. I’m amazed by the amount of homework young children get nowadays, even at the kindergarten level.
You’ll find that most children, most of the time, will have no problems completing their homework. In fact many children enjoy their homework and take pride in completing their work.
However, there will be times when your child due to mood or tiredness does not feel up to the task of completing his or her homework, and this is where we need to step in as parents. This is an important parenting opportunity, because by helping our children develop a healthy attitude towards their homework, we are helping them develop a healthy attitude towards work and responsibility in the long term. This is not so much about the work itself. It is about building character.
It should be in a quiet part of the house, with minimal distractions. It also helps if the place is well lit and not too warm.
Some children decorate the walls of their study area with their schoolwork, including pictures they may have drawn. This is good as it adds to their sense of pride in their work.
Encik Azman, a father of an 11 year old son, found that his son was not able to work productively at home and so decided to have him complete his homework in his office.
“After school each day, I fetch my son and he spends the afternoon with me at the office completing his homework. I think being here at my office, seeing his father working hard and everyone in the office working hard motivates him to work hard as well.”
Most children are the most alert in the morning from about 9:00am to 11:00am, in the late afternoon after 5:00pm and at night. Conversely most children are at their drowsiest in the afternoon just after lunch.
Most young children, by nature, are extremely energetic and active, always on the lookout out for new and exciting experiences. These high levels of energy are a good thing, as they enable learning, but they can also mean that the child may get bored quickly if a learning activity is not engaging or interesting.
For children below 5 years old, each session should not last more than 30 minutes and for children who are 5-6 yrs old, it should not last more than 40 minutes.
What we can do is to bring to life their work, especially when they find it boring. The best way to get children interested is to make them active learners rather than passive learners.
When learning becomes active and fun, children will be more likely to engage with their homework.
They should be given some free time to relax, to play, to rest. This provides some motivation for the child to complete their work. It gives them something to look forward to.
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